My 2013 Honda Accord Touring V6 — 13 Years Later and Still Going

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2013 Honda Accord V6 Touring–My current car

Why would someone keep a car for 13 years? That’s certainly the question I would have asked at 8. At 58, I understand perfectly why I’m still driving my 2013 Honda Accord V6 Touring, but as a child, the only people I knew who kept old cars were older folks from our church. Mr. Keele, in his nineties, drove a gray 1950 Ford that matched the gray suit he wore every Sunday. Mathilda and Amelia, sisters in their eighties, traveled around in a black 1955 Chevrolet 210 two-door sedan, with Mathilda behind the wheel despite once backing over Amelia’s foot and insisting it was her sister’s fault for having “big feet.” Then there was Mr. Johnson, in his fifties, and his immaculate blue 1963 Buick Electra. In my mind, old people drove old cars. Yet here I am, still driving the 2013 Honda Accord I bought new 13 years ago.

When I was ready to buy my next car, I knew what I wanted.  It had to be a four-door sedan.  I wanted a V6, leather interior, a sunroof, Bluetooth, and navigation.  In late 2012 and early 2013, there were many options on the market.  I looked at the 2012 Acura TL with the Advance Package.  It was nice and certainly drove well.  However, I didn’t like the styling even though Acura had tamed the awkward beak found on earlier models.  The Lexus ES 350 was also very nice and newly restyled.  However, it was a bit more than I wanted to spend, as some of the features were in higher trim packages.  The 2013 Toyota Avalon was all-new that year and could be had with a hybrid engine.  It was very nice, but felt a bit mature.  I was thinking I wanted something a bit more youthful, and in the end, I chose the 2013 Honda Accord V6 Touring in silver.

Redesigned for 2013, the 9th-generation Honda Accord rectified some of the criticisms of the 8th-generation.  Honda finally added Bluetooth to the Accord, and they reduced the size so it was no longer a full-size car.  The engine was bumped up in power and now made 278 horsepower and 252 lb-ft of torque.  For comparison, our 2000 Chrysler 300M had 253 horsepower and 250 lb-ft of torque.  I remember reading the test drive in Edmunds, and they raved about the engine’s power.  Somewhat paraphrasing their words, they said the new 6-cylinder Accord could punch a hole through the atmosphere with the power it had.  The Touring model added adaptive cruise control and LED headlights over the features in the EX V6. I knew I wanted those features, and so, I went over to Ken Dixon Honda to take a look.  I took one for a test drive and liked it.  I still wanted to look, and so I did test drive the Acura TL to compare the two cars.  Bobbi had said if I wanted the Acura, I should get it as she liked it too, but it was my decision.  After some thought and negotiation, the dealer was able to make a trade for a silver Honda Accord Touring, and I finalized the deal in early February, 2013.

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The Accord was a wonderful car for commuting to DC.  In addition to the backup camera, Honda had installed a lane-watch camera, which showed what was on the passenger side when the right turn signal was on or if you pressed a button.  It’s still one of my favorite features and has come in handy in looking out for cyclists in traffic.  It was also quieter than my old Accord.  Honda had made interior noise a priority, and they introduced some noise-cancelling technology to improve on that. The built-in navigation was a great feature to finally have.  I didn’t have to rely on my phone or my Garmin for directions.  Having everything come through the sound system was so convenient.  The heated seats were great in winter and after snowboarding. All the latest safety features were included, including traction control and lane-assist monitoring, and so I knew the girls would have a safe car to drive when they learned to drive.  However, in spite of all those features, I bought the car for the performance.  It’s wickedly fast, and I still love having all that power today just as I did when I bought the car 13 years ago.

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The Earth Dreams V6–more hp than our 300M

The first couple of years of ownership were uneventful, as they should be.  The Accord was my daily commuter, first into Washington, DC, and then out to Reston when I accepted a position with an online ad agency.  That commute certainly caused the miles to increase on my car, even with working one day a week at home.  Having a long commute is grinding on one’s soul, and so after two years, I left that role and settled into an advertising sales position with my local paper to wait out a non-compete.  The Accord still went on sales calls, but they were local.  I would return to the Northern Virginia commute with a role at a tech company, but Covid relegated that to a work-from-home experience after a year.

Beyond commuting, the Accord was a wonderful trip car, and we took it all over.  The girls were teenagers, which meant they could entertain themselves with movies on their phones, so the Odyssey stayed home.  The navigation system was great for taking trips to places where we did not know our way around.  We drove to Canada to see Niagara Falls.  We drove to New York City after an ice storm to see Something’s Rotten on Broadway when the official high school field trip was canceled due to the weather.  We’ve traveled to Saint Simon’s Island, Georgia, for a week and, each time, the Accord performed flawlessly.  It was the car Emily drove over the curb while learning how to drive.  It’s the car Katie took her driver’s test in, and it was in the car when I got the call from my dad telling me that my mom had been diagnosed with Stage 4 gall bladder cancer.  With that news, I was driving to Pittsburgh to spend more time with mom.

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Mom and me-November 2014

My mom was one of those people who ate organic food before it was called organic.  She exercised regularly, didn’t smoke, seldom drank, and was always in good health.  Her diagnosis was the proverbial “bolt from the blue,” and we were told she had six months.  Mom, however, outlasted the original prognosis and lived for 15 months.  My regular trips to Pittsburgh were sometimes with the whole family, but more often with Katie, as she was close to my mom.  When Mom did pass away, Katie and I drove up the next day in the Accord while Emily and Bobbi followed two days later.  The viewing was on a Friday; the funeral was on Saturday.  Mom was cremated, but she had one final ride in the Accord.

My mom had always wanted to visit St Augustine, Florida.  No reason was ever given. Rather, she always wanted to visit.  My dad had decided he wanted to scatter a small amount of her ashes in St Augustine, and so, we took a road trip.    Dad drove down with his dog so Bobbi, Emily, and Emily’s boyfriend could watch her.  Katie, Dad, and I headed out to St. Augustine, which is an 11-hour drive away from my house, but we were going to break up the trip with a couple of days in Brunswick, Georgia.  Despite my dad not liking it there, he did want to see the town.  Katie was not old enough to drive, so I expected to do most of the driving.  Fifteen minutes into the trip, Dad tells me that he doesn’t like to drive other people’s cars and would not drive mine.  He eventually offered to help with the driving on the return trip when we were less than an hour from my house, saying that perhaps he was too hasty in not wanting to drive.

He did grumble about the heat, but it was Florida in July, and I thought it was fine.  We stopped in Savannah on the way and toured Juliet Gordon Lowe’s house.  She was the founder of Girl Scouts, and Katie was a Girl Scout, so a visit seemed appropriate. We went to some great restaurants and stayed in a nice hotel. I dragged both Katie and Dad to the beach one day because I didn’t drive all that way to not see the beach.  We also accomplished what we set out to do and found a nice garden to scatter some of Mom’s ashes.  I think she would have liked it there.

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St. Augustine, Florida, Dad and Katie behind the Accord, July 2018

We would make a return trip in 2022 to Brunswick.  This time, Bobbi, Emily, Logan, who was Emily’s boyfriend, Katie, and I took two cars down with Emily and Logan driving the Accord.  Again, it performed flawlessly, and the young couple had a car that they could do some sightseeing on their own.  It was my third trip to Brunswick in four years.  Much had changed since my childhood there in 1979, so it was interesting seeing it through Bobbi’s eyes.  She got to see the town, the beach we went to on Jekyll Island, the house we lived in, as well as tourist sites.  It was fun, and we stayed in a nice Airbnb on St. Simon’s.  It was a great trip!

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St. Simon’s Island, Georgia-August 2022

Katie always liked my Accord.  We had thought she might take it over but COVID delayed her getting her driver’s license.  She finally got her license right before her junior year of college, so the Accord made countless trips to pick her up when she wanted to come home for the weekend.  At the start of her junior year, she became a commuter and sometimes used the car when hers was in the shop.  For me, my professional life has taken an interesting turn where I am an independent contractor.  I now work from home, and in the last six years, I’ve added less than 50,000 miles to the odometer.

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Katie learning how to drive–courtesy of me

Of course, no relationship is perfect, and the Accord has had some issues.  I really liked my 2004 Honda Accord, but I can tell where Honda cut corners when they designed this generation.  The carpet isn’t as nice as the old one.  The interior trim is okay, but my previous Accord had a richer-looking interior.  They removed the tray from the center console. They removed the glovebox light, and the rear doors no longer have a courtesy light on the door.  I realize that car companies are looking to maintain margins, but I noticed the cost-cutting.  I recently had some rust repaired while the car was in the shop due to a pickup truck rear-ending me.  Fortunately, everything was repairable, and I still like the car.

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Rosa coming home! Courtesy of me

In going back to my original question on why someone would keep a car so long, I think I have an answer.  A car has so many memories.  I drove my dogs to parks for walks.  Sheeva took her last ride to the emergency vet in the Accord.  Rosa came home from the Humane Society in the Accord.  Katie took her driver’s test in it.  I drove Emily and Katie to their 8th-grade dances in the Accord.  I drove it on dates with Bobbi and picked my dad up at the airport in it.

And just like I had memories on the Accord, I can well imagine Mathilda and Amelia driving home from church, laughing about something in the 1955 Chevy, or Mr Keele meeting friends in his 1950 Ford.  Mr Johnson truly loved his Buick and was sad when it had to go.  One night, some teens in a stolen car led police on a chase.  The teens lost control and smashed into the Electra, totaling it.  He replaced it with a brown 1973 Buick Electra, which I felt was more modern and suitable for him.  I overheard him tell my parents how much he missed his old Buick, and the new one was not as well-built.  I understand that now that I’m probably older than Mr. Johnson was then.  I don’t know what I would replace my Accord with, and I hope not to have to do so for a while.