My 2004 Honda Element, Part 1 — I Liked It So Much I Bought It Twice

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The Honda Element has many ardent fans, including myself. I love the Element so much that I actually bought it twice. The utility, comfort and design appeal to my useful nature – I like to have a vehicle that can do a little bit of everything and if there was ever something that met this metric, the Element is it. Like my ’01 Ford Focus, the Element is still in my fleet, unlike the Focus, it is one of my current daily drivers. We’re going to have to go on a time-travel journey on this COAL, so strap in and hang on! Also, please forgive another two part-er, but if there ever was a COAL that was worth two parts, this is it.

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Sitting on the lot at Herb Chambers Honda on pickup day.

The story of the Element starts many years ago, circa 2007. My ex-wife A (before we were married) needed a new car. Her ’01 Golf had been towed during a snowstorm and was sold as being abandoned. It wasn’t that much of a problem at the time, as she had a car as part of her job as a nanny and the 2.0L (aka the “two point slow“) Golf had the typical 2000 era VAG quality problems.

When the job ended, access to her nanny car, a Toyota Highlander did as well. Life came fast for both of us at this same time, as we both lost our jobs almost simultaneously. After a few weeks (including one at my parents house in upstate New York where we had an ‘ice cream’ diet), we were both able to find new jobs and move on. The problem of a car for her remained, but she finally settled on the Element. A’s Golf was a manual transmission, which she enjoyed, so the Element would also be a manual. Knowing that we didn’t need the complication, expense and weight of the AWD, we found a 2004 FWD Honda Element five-speed in Galapagos Green. She quickly earned the unimaginative name “Ellie”.

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My ex and I on the go.

The Element was her daily driver for both personal use and in her role as a nanny. She took care of two kids, so we drove around with car seats / booster seats in the rear. This worked great to secure various objects in the back seat (including six-packs of beer). I had no idea that over a decade later and in an entirely different place in life, I would have another car seat in the back, only for a child that was mine.

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Our dog (Scarlet) also rode in the car seats from time to time.

For the most part, I found the Element comfortable to drive, with two exceptions. I always wish that it had a sixth gear and cruise control. It was always a little buzzy in fifth at highway speeds, so much so that many people do in fact upgrade with Honda/Acura parts to add a sixth cog. More important than an additional gear was the lack of cruise control. It is the biggest bane to long distance trips in the Element. While adding remote locks was literally plug and play, cruise control would require an aftermarket addition because of the lack of ABS.

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The Element always performed well in snow, even without AWD. I found that the ability to precisely control wheel-speed/spin with the manual transmission made it quite proficient in bad weather, even running exclusively on all-season tires.

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Time for an (ir)regularly scheduled oil change.

The Element required regular repairs over the years, tires, brakes and a few other things here and there. One thing that the Element seemed to eat up was exhaust gaskets between the down-pipe and the exhaust. The first time this happened I took it to two different shops to diagnose what was wrong with it — I didn’t have a shop, so I was at the mercy of mechanics. One place said that it was a cracked exhaust manifold (that’s what it sounded like, exhaust leaking out) and quoted me a $4000 repair. I was able to get it back home to NY and my dad and I were able to fix it for less than $25. All the more reason to loathe mechanics. Since this is 10+ years ago, my memory is a little hazy, but there weren’t any major repairs or issues that come to mind.

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The Element was a good travel companion, especially when camping was involved. A full-sized air mattress fits perfectly in the back with the seats folded down and window-screen and magnets made for good bug protection over the front windows.

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How Ellie started most trips

I quickly figured out the perfect way to pack all the necessary things for camping in all the spaces of the Element. Often loaded with bikes, the Element, A, and I took many trips, including the Great Smokey Mountains, Blue Ridge Mountains, Florida, Kentucky, the Outer Banks and all over New England. We often had a mutual friend, J along with us, and the Element was a near-perfect road trip vehicle for two or three people.

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Outside Bath, Maine
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Blue Ridge Mountains
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Outer Banks Ferry

We also ventured up north into Canada, including Toronto, Ottawa and Campobello Island multiple times. There was also a memorable early morning run from Providence to Philadelphia that took record time (something like 4 and a half hours).

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Getting ready to bike on the gravel roads on Campobello Island, NB
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Camping on the northern shore of Lake Ontario, somewhere in Canada

The Element’s first battle scar occurred on a camping trip up into New England. We had a great time wandering around the NY/VT border and some lovely camping in the Green Mountains. During one of our photographic stops, I lifted A up onto the driver’s side hood to pose for a photo. For some reason the position she sat in led to a small dent, and we would laugh about this dent for years to come.

Ellie would earn another battle scar on a different trip. We were loaded with three people, camping gear and three bikes on a hatch-mount bike rack. After an overnight at my parents’ house in upstate NY, we headed off to Niagara Falls for the Fourth of July to watch the fireworks. About halfway along our journey, I noticed that the bikes were sitting a little funny in the side-view mirror. I quickly pulled over and realized one of the straps had come undone and the entire contraption, three bikes and bike rack, and come loose and were hanging at a precarious angle. Nothing had fallen off, but the rear hatch had a nice diagonal crease and scratch for my troubles.

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Ouch.

A and I had married in the Summer of 2009 and moved into an apartment in Providence and established our life. I convinced her to head back to school, and she was able to get into school for Speech Language Pathology. We were together for four years as a married couple before she headed off to St. Louis (with the Element, followed by my parents in their motorhome – Hugo – and a small U-Haul trailer).

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I was going to follow out when my grant-funded job ended at a local historical society. Fast forward a few months and I got the fateful message – she wanted a divorce. The nitty-gritty of it was entirely my fault and I don’t blame her in the slightest. As we had nothing to our names except our two vehicles, the split was easy, even if it did take until 2016 for it to happen legally. I remained in our apartment and started on my new life. She was already settled in Missouri with the dog and the Element, so we left it at that.

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I thought I had said goodbye to all three, but life has a funny way of boomeranging around on you when you least expect it. A number of years later, I would buy the Element again — not another one like it, but this same car — which I’ll explain in Part 2.